Widower Dating in the USA
Meet widows, widowers and the people who want to love them, in your state. Joining is free.
Date A Widower is widower dating for the United States: a place where widows, widowers and the people who would love to meet them can find each other, state by state. Most of our members live in the USA, so wherever you are, from a big city to a small town, the people we suggest each day are people you could actually meet for coffee.
Where your story is already understood
On a general dating app, you decide on every first date when to mention your late husband or wife, and then watch the other person's face. Here, that conversation is already behind you. Everyone joined a widow and widower dating site on purpose. Some have lost a spouse themselves; others would simply like a partner who knows how to love deeply and stay. Either way, nobody here will ask why there is still a wedding photo on the shelf.
Who you will meet
Women make up about 69% of our US members, and they tend to be in their late thirties to their fifties: 54% of women members are under 45. Men are older on average, with 55% aged 55 or over. So if you are a woman hoping to meet a settled, slightly older man, or a widower who would like to meet someone a little younger, the mix works in your favor.
Widowed singles in every state
Our members are spread across the country, with the most in Texas, California, New York, Florida and Illinois, followed by Pennsylvania, Ohio, New Jersey and Georgia. The six biggest have their own pages, describing who our members there are, local date ideas and how far people tend to travel. If your state is not listed, you are still welcome: set your distance a little wider and the daily matches will find people within reach. Browse every area on our widowed singles near you page.
From free profile to first date
Create a free profile in a few minutes, add a photo and say what you are hoping for, whether that is marriage, a companion or a friend to start with. The site then picks out a few nearby members for you each day. Message the ones you like, take your time, and meet when it feels right. Your real name and address are never shown, and a free ID check puts a verified badge on your profile. See how it works and our safety page.
Free to join and browse
Signing up and browsing cost nothing, your daily matches are included, and so are some messages every day. VIP memberships, which lift the message limit, are priced in US dollars on our pricing page.
Grown-up singles across America
How our US members split by age. Women here are mostly in their late thirties to fifties; men are older on average.
Women
- Under 3514%
- 35 to 4440%
- 45 to 5430%
- 55 to 6412%
- 65 and over4%
Men
- Under 356%
- 35 to 4417%
- 45 to 5422%
- 55 to 6429%
- 65 and over26%
Your questions about widower dating in the USA
Is Date A Widower available in my state?
Yes. Anyone in the USA aged 18 or over can join. The site matches by distance, so set how far you are happy to travel.
Do I have to be widowed to join?
No. Many members are widowed and many would like to date someone who is. Everyone is here for the same kind of connection.
Is it free?
Yes. You can join, browse, receive daily matches and send a few messages each day without paying. VIP removes the message limit.
Can I use it on my phone?
Yes. Open it in your phone's browser and save it to your home screen; it then behaves like an app.